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THAT is why love fades over time , and why you feel trapped in a loveless marriage .
That ’ s why a friend of yours can say the exact same words to you , and it doesn ’ t trigger you , but when your spouse says those words , it triggers the crap out of you .
Everything you do or say , or that they do or say , is getting filtered through the pain and upset of every brick in that brick wall .
How to save a loveless marriage
Your loveless marriage is not about you or your partner , and it can ’ t be fixed with date nights , couple ’ s therapy , stuff that used to work , or advice from well-meaning family and friends .
The solution to a loveless marriage is to take each brick in the wall between you and solve that brick , brick by brick , until the wall is gone .
When you do that , each brick in the wall becomes part of a rock-solid foundation the two of you stand on , together , in rock-solid alignment .
That means even your biggest upsets or blowups can actually become the strongest part of the relationship and actually hold your relationship up going forward .
Relationship problems — like bricks in the wall — are solved with relationship skill sets . One of the great things about skill sets is that they can be learned !
Paul and I have spent decades learning and developing our relationship skill sets , and for over a decade now , we ’ ve been teaching people these skill sets to save their marriage , find their forever love , and create Unshakeable Love , Unleashed Passion , and a peaceful , harmonious household .
Learn the relationship skills , tools , and strategies you need to solve those bricks in the wall between you and your partner . That is how you fix a loveless marriage .
If you ’ re interested in getting started with the same skill sets Paul and I use in our marriage and teach our students , check out our 14-Day Boost To Your Relationship at https :// 14dayboost . com .
REFUSES to change !
STACEY MARTINO - Stacey has proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship … ANY relationship ! Stacey , and her husband Paul are on a mission to empower people to get the Unshakable Love and Unleashed Passion they want in their relationship … even if their partner
Stacey and Paul , are the founders of RelationshipDevelopment . org and creators of RelationshipU ®. Through their revolutionary Relationship Development ® methodology , they are changing the way relationship is done !
Today , through their strategic coaching , online programs and soldout live events , Stacey and Paul have helped save thousands of marriages around the world ( by working with only one spouse ). Trained and certified by Tony Robbins , Stacey is a certified marriage educator , divorce preventionist and strategic interventionist . As a six-time best-selling author , Stacey is a sought-after relationship expert , and is the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine .
Learn more about their empowering relationship programs , the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat™ and more at www . relationshipdevelopment . org . Listen to the popular Relationship Transformers ® podcast here .
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