Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) DEC 2016 / JAN 2017 Aspire Mag Full Issue A Miracl | Page 37

I have a neighbor, who does not appear to be the sharpest tack in the box, but still he runs a wildly successful lifestyle business. My husband wanted to know how someone like this guy succeeds, while so many others are just treading water. The secret is creating the life you really want and making choices to move yourself in that direction. I yearned to live in more alignment with my soul’s divine nature - because I was tired of the draining experience of fighting against the tide. Here are the steps I took to start moving toward a more aligned and fulfilling life… take them one at a time… don’t get totally overwhelmed. And by the way, it is not always complete ease - but the result is so worth the effort and growing pains. 1. Purge. We are surrounded by things and people that are not supporting us and our true vibration. Of course it is easier to get rid of stuff than people, but you should consider everything that is not serving your highest good. My own spiritual evolution required cleaning out my closet and some toxic friendships. My mentor suggested to me that I apply a 3-part analysis to everything: 1) Have I used it within the last year? 2) Does it still serve me?, and 3) Do I LOVE it? If you do not answer yes to all three of these questions - toss it! Clutter does not serve you in any way. It merely creates energetic chaos that prevents you from becoming truly aligned. 2. Solidify Your Ritual. Routine and ritual really helps elevate your vibration. I find that a morning ritual practice works best for me, I get it accomplished and move on to the great things waiting for me in the rest of my day. On the days that I have tried to postpone my meditation or any part of my ritual to the evening, I never get it done. My morning ritual practice includes lighting a candle or incense, setting intention for the day and meditating. A ritual practice doesn’t have to be long and drawn out, it can be 5-15 minutes of time you devote to you and restoring your vital life-force energy. You deserve time to focus on yourself and bring in the self-love that is your birthright. 3. Daily Affirmations. Lots of us use daily affirmations… I am abundant; I am open to receive love; I attract everything I need… I encourage my clients to alter this practice just a bit. Make your daily affirmations to yourself in the mirror. Do them in the first person and then a second time in the second person. 37 WISDOM & SELF-GROWTH Too often we just trudge along through life without investing time, effort and energy in ourselves and the things that really matter… like what you devote the majority of your waking hours to. We are repressed by the low vibration of settling and surviving, while we grow resentful of those around us who appear to be thriving.